Before using words

Before I use words I can

  • know the voices and faces of the people who look after me
  • enjoy looking at your face
  • show I am excited when I expect something good is going to happen, like bath time
  • copy faces
  • make noises like –
    • gurgle
    • coo
    • shout
    • squeal
  • cry and let you know whether I am happy or sad

You can help my talking by

  • watching me to see what I am interested in and telling me what it is
  • telling me what you are doing and where we are going
  • pausing and listening to my noises and sounds when I reply
  • copying my noises and waiting for me to answer back with more
  • using an interesting voice and face to encourage me to listen

Activities we can share together

  • looking at picture books and simple stories
  • singing songs and rhymes with lots of actions in them so I can join in
  • playing games like –
    • ‘peek-a-boo’
    • ‘pat-a-cake’
    • ‘round and round the garden’
    • ‘this little piggy’
  • playing with rattles so I can listen when the noise stops and starts
  • copying each other clapping and waving
  • outdoor activities which you can talk to me about, for instance –
    • hanging out the washing
    • going to the shops
    • getting on the bus

Things to remember

  • children learn from adults. Have a special time every day to enjoy playing and talking together
  • houses are noisy places. Reduce the amount of noise by turning off the TV or radio. It is easier for children to listen without the extra noise
  • looking at each other will help your child understand how important talking is. Sit so that your child can see your face
  • too much dummy sucking can reduce the amount of talking your child does and may cause difficulties in speaking. Cut down the amount of time your child has a dummy
  • your child needs you to talk with them throughout the day. Everyday jobs and routines can be a time to talk with your child like meal times, getting dressed and undressed, bath time, going for a walk, going to the shops, on the bus or in the car